Quote Originally Posted by submissive sugar;
I also know that my husband was one of those rare men who does have a Dominant spark in him ... he just needs to work it out.
Hey! It seems as if we are walking down a similar path. I know exactly what you mean. But this is Dorkalicious' thread, so I'll leave it at that.

Dorkalicious, you are 19. While I am past that age now...way past... I can remember what that love felt like. I can also remember thinking, "if I leave him, who else will be there for me? Will I be all alone now?? And if I do leave, he will be hurt and I don't want to hurt him.". Don't let fear and guilt hold you back from living the life you will be happiest living. Discover who you are and find the person who can live your dream WITH you. If it is your boyfriend, then you will work this through. If he isn't the one, then you have a lot of life before you in which to find HIM.

I can say this...I wish that when I was 19 that I had a place like this community to learn from. What a resource! But I have it now, and so do you. You'll be fine as long as you can see that this path you are on has many twists and turns and there are no absolutes or guarantees. Just be open to finding what is out there for you, okay?

~hugs~
tessa