Well, sweetie ~hugs you close~ change is never the easiest, even if it's a fun kind of change. I will say this based on what you've said (and yes, it's only your perspective, but it is YOUR life we are discussing here, so it is the one that matters). It seems that if he won't even give you the attention enough to discuss a simple "will you pick me up?", then what's going to happen when the really big deal life happenings come around? Sure sometimes many of us, and I mean men and women, go into our own little world when our significant others are gabbing away about something we have no interest in. But we pretend we do, nod and say "oh really??" at appropriate pauses in the gabbing. And we do that because obviously, for them, it is of some import. If David can't even pretend with the small stuff, well, I'd be worried about he'd be like when the major issues crashed in on top of you.

And also, when you deep down all the way care about someone, you let that person know...in big ways and in the small ways (like looking you in the eye when speaking about something because he knows you prefer that.) A relationship can only be successful when the people involved give it EVERYTHING they have to give. And even then, there will be rough patches. Committment and passion are the key. Find that and you've found your One.

You keep talking however you want! Keep talking until you aren't feeling so lost anymore. We'll be here to listen.

~hugs again~
tessa