Do subs give out secret signals, if so what?

cariad
Despite your lack of intent, me thinks yours weren't so secret to your decorator friend.

I have had similar experiences (an everyday situation, no references to kink at all) a few times in the past. Even lost contact with a person I considered to be a friend when her husband commented to her after I had simply visited with her at her home, "that girl flies one kinky flag".

So I offer a question to you in return. Is who we are such an integral part of our "make-up" that it's impossible to keep our submissiveness a secret?

A fascinating thought, cariad.