Warbaby, I most certainly was not trying to entice, either consciously or unconsciously, for although he is a good friend, he does absolutely nothing for me.

Well tessa, I guess that was question which behind mine, and I was interested to read of your experience.

Whilst I am very comfortable with who I am, I have no wish to be broadcasting and getting unwanted attention, or even worse, as you did, loose a friend.

cariad