There is a thread a while back about this issue (started by Tojo I think) that has a lot of different opinions. While I'm in the camp that honesty is generally the best policy, reading through that thread gave me a new perspective on the reasons people come online to look for whatever they're missing in their real lives. Not everything can be as black and white as we wish it to be and sometimes we end up living our lives in shades of grey. I suppose each of us needs to decide what is right. Bold statement, eh?!