D/s outside one's marriage

[precious]

Natalie D, I'm one of those people.

I'm not married, but I'm in two relationships, one on-line and off-line. Having said that I don’t think my relationships have anything to do with anyone else so I'm not going to spend time here trying to justify my situation. You're not "missing anything" because unless you are, or you are planning to be, in this kind of situation yourself, then it's simply not necessary for you to "get it".

Quite obviously, it's not an acceptable situation to you, or people like you, but quite frankly, I can live with that.

I'm not here to judge or be judged.

Well said Alex!