This thread has been a really great read!
Okay, I know the rules that FantazMaster (sorry sp) posted would probably be tedious and possibly be impossible in reality, but am i really the only one who got just a teensy bit turned on?![]()
Okay, maybe it is just me, i'm just a yearning wench...lol
And, finally, to answer the thread's question-
Some "rules" I had to go by in previous relationships have been mentioned thus far-
- keep eyes downcast
- no sitting on furniture, generally sitting at Mistress or Sir's feet
- kiss/ worship Mistress' feet after serving..whatever.. coffe.. tea.. etc...
- served (nonsexually) and was respectful to Mistress and Sir's (D/s) friends- kind of like what Kate said She has at Her house.
- of course no orgasm w/o permission or command
- dress code at home was no clothing permitted
- i walked behind Mistress, although Sir would open the doors for me, which i appreciated b/c i still like some old-fashioned male chivalry.
In public, i still addressed Mistress as so, and walked a slight step behind. There were times in a semi-public area, like getting out of the car in the parking lot of a regular store (walmart or whatever) that i would worship her feet right there.
I thought it would be way too embarrassing for me to do those things in public, but actually it was wonderful to just be myself. (Besides the fact that i always appreciate shock value, and she and i both shared the attitude that anyone who wanted to judge me or us could go f*** themselves
And similar to what Dragon's muse said, i felt these things were not like rules- sitting or kneeling at Mistress or Sir's feet with my head on their leg or in their lap being caressed affectionately like their pet was the sweetest bliss... so natural and comfortable and beautiful.
However, I do too enjoy rules (even very formal ones), like Tomof Sweden mentioned his sub/ slave does.