ok, I can't let this go. Perhaps the woman wanted to do that, and he created the situation to make it happen. the guy gave no details about the scene, just the jist of it. We don't know if he helped her realize her fantasy or not. Saying that its sick or abuse is judgmental, especially if we don't know the details.

I agree Russel, few people can lead, but I know many leaders that are not Dominants, but rather submissives.