How far do you go?

[Guest 91108]

OK, if you are speechless, I guess you have no idea what advice to give to those who do not like to use safe words.

Is it really so incomprehensible that someone can be sensitive enough not to lose control, even if there is no such thing as a safe word?

It's your knowing she had a safe word and did not use it when she did .. that is the problem I see here.
I find you ignoring some one with a safe word as Conduct Unbecoming a Dom.
There is pushing the limits.. a safeword sets that limit in hard boundary.

I say that if a sub has a dream about really being raped, and her dom rapes her despite her saying their safe word, this is not abuse. This is making her dream come true. A jury would probably come to the opposite position, if the case went to court, but the jury is not always right.

Regardless of what fantasy a sub tells you doesn't give you the right to push it and enact it beyond that safe word.
If her fantasy was a snuff film would you make that dream come true?
I would say you were so far wrong as to need to seriously rethink your own situation.
I think it bespeaks of you losing control and not paying attention to her needs and desires. I would think a Dom who does lacks the ability to be responsible for others. This seems you only fulfilled your own in this action .. not hers. She declared hers to you when she used the safeword.
I would wonder of the sub herself.
I would also wonder if this sub chose to stay with you and to her from her herself.