What IS T.F.T.B.?

[cariad]

I cannot imagine being in a relationship where I was not free to contribute either ideas, initiatives, passion, emotion, or any other part of my personality. If I was to squash that then it would not be me the Dom was having a relationship with; and if taken to its logical conclusion, he might just as well be having a relationship with a puncture free blow up doll.

cariad

[Guest 91108]

I cannot imagine being in a relationship where I was not free to contribute either ideas, initiatives, passion, emotion, or any other part of my personality. If I was to squash that then it would not be me the Dom was having a relationship with; and if taken to its logical conclusion, he might just as well be having a relationship with a puncture free blow up doll.

cariad

What is wrong with good old fashioned openness and simply telling the Dom that you would love to be spanked? Surely there does not need to be a 'reason' beyond that. To me that is just effective communication, misbehaving in order to goad the Dom, is in my book manipulation, and therefore tftb.

cariad

I would say a relationship that doesn't have both of those is one I would not want.

especially the blow up doll. desparate, immature, lack of ability to acquire a sub .. disgusting....