What IS T.F.T.B.?

[cariad]

For example, if a sub wants a spanking, s/he may playfully cut up and tease the Dominant, trying to goad him into "spanking" them so they will "behave." But if topping from the bottom, the pyl will deliberate break rules, trying to anger the PYL into punishing them, rather than simply being open and honest and asking for a spanking

What is wrong with good old fashioned openness and simply telling the Dom that you would love to be spanked? Surely there does not need to be a 'reason' beyond that. To me that is just effective communication, misbehaving in order to goad the Dom, is in my book manipulation, and therefore tftb.

cariad

[mkemse]

What is wrong with good old fashioned openness and simply telling the Dom that you would love to be spanked? Surely there does not need to be a 'reason' beyond that. To me that is just effective communication, misbehaving in order to goad the Dom, is in my book manipulation, and therefore tftb.

cariad

All I was doing was answering a question posed, I have no personal opinion on this one way or another