Quote Originally Posted by cariad View Post
What is wrong with good old fashioned openness and simply telling the Dom that you would love to be spanked? Surely there does not need to be a 'reason' beyond that. To me that is just effective communication, misbehaving in order to goad the Dom, is in my book manipulation, and therefore tftb.

cariad
All I was doing was answering a question posed, I have no personal opinion on this one way or another