Quote Originally Posted by TomOfSweden View Post
I don't like people here attaching value to it. For me TFTB is simply a person who likes being humiliated/tortured etc but who doesn't like handing over control. There's no better or worse. I just see it as one more flavor in the BDSM scene.
Thank you.

The name-calling and condescension towards people who don't follow the One True Way of BDSM gets to be a bit much around here, sometimes.