Thanks again everyone *group hug!*
I guess on place to start would be what happened a few nights ago:
We were both at work, and this particular night it was laid back enough that if I needed to take a phone call, I could without being worried about getting in trouble. The following day, I had something going on that I needed information about as soon as my friend got it, so of course, when she did, she called me.
Well, what happened was I took the phone call, and while on the phone I was trying to maneuver my way around a very large obstacle. In the process of doing this, David thought it would be funny/cute/a good idea...to slap my ass. Now, time and time again, I have asked and told him not to do this, especially at work (This is because not only do I have lower back problems and he has bad aim, but because we are at work...). Well, this was horrible timing, because due to the awkward position I was in, my pelvic area was thrust into the corner of the object I was attempting to maneuver my way around. My friend basically heard a scream from me, and since I couldn't hold the phone anymore I handed it to David -- Who promptly hung up on her. *sigh*
I sat on the floor, because it hurt so much to move, and all he could do was try to get my up and out of the way of people (which honestly they could have waited 5 minutes to get to the particular section I was blocking...). This angered me, because he didn't apologize, he just tried to get me up and out of the way. Of course, when people asked me what happened, I told them and David's response was "I didn't hit you"...
That was part A. Part B:
Later that night, I had lightened up about the whole thing (Not entirely though!...because it took a lot to get an apology out of him). About an hour and a half later, my pelvic area was not throbbing or stinging or...whatever anymore. We were joking around about something, and I hip-checked him (I hope you all know what that is, lol). Well, I'm not exactly sure what happened, buuuuut...he did it back and I went flying into the railing next to me, which then injured my hip, right big toe, and lower back yet again -- I understand this was partially my fault. Of course, once again he did not apologize right away. I kind of just....stared at him, and he finally got what I was looking for and said he was sorry. I was slightly bitter, I admit...but I tried to take it as light heartedly as possible and joked around about it. I don't remember exactly what I said, but something ticked him off enough to leave me alone, after dark, in pain, and in the middle of a bridge to stalk off to his house which is where we were headed.
*long sigh*...I think this post/rant is long enough!