ohhh my head...~sighs~

ok...so here's what i am thinking.. it's not a matter of not using a safeword. heck Master and i didn't have one at all until a few weeks ago when we decided our play was getting more and more intense and of course we want me to be safe. so rce, if you do not use a safeword in your relationship, then it's OK. as long as that is something you and your sub have discussed and agreed upon.

the problem is that in your original post, you insinuated that your sub had tried to use her safeword and that you ignored it. that is what is getting everyone's panties in a bunch, hun. can you make the clarification there? did she have a safeword and tried to use it? or did she not and was just doing the usual kind of responses when it comes to rape play? (ie: "no, please stop!")

i think before this gets any more heated we should wait for that clarification from rce. i think this is just a misunderstanding..