I'm so glad there are many here who take the 'safeword' or whatever you will call it seriously. I feel much better now I have seen this and I especially agree with cariads post.
If you have not been there yourself, you can't imagine how much it can damage someones life.
And yes, I am one of those girls dreaming about being raped on so many occasions. Fantasy rape should not be the same as real rape.

Thank you, you all wise kinky people here.