Quote Originally Posted by lucyboy View Post

I just wish if Dommes don't find sub men attractive and are only are looking for a man to beat and do domestic duties they would be totally honest about it then I can avoid them.

With all due respect to the Dommes out there I think all men should avoid such Dommes because attraction should be essential to all relationships whether they are subDom or vanilla.

Why spend you're life living a lie, better to submit to a woman who finds you attractive and gets turned on by dominating you. The feeling should be mutual.

Or am I being to picky again??? Is this breaking rule number 1!!!!! NO SUB SHALL TOP FROM THE BOTTOM??????

My god what a mine field I never know if I'm saying the wron thing
Okay, getting here late for the party, but let me wade in anyway. You say that you think ALL MEN should avoid these types of Dommes. What if that type of Domme is exactly what a sub man is looking for? When did you acquire the right or ability to speak for all sub men?

Not every sub man is looking for exactly the same thing you are, and to dismiss other's relationships as "living a lie" just because it would not meet your needs is a bit egocentrical.

Best of luck to you and i sincerely hope you find what it is that you want.