Tricking your sub into getting something else.

[Dragon's muse]

I think if my Dom did that to me, he wouldn't be my Dom anymore.

Unless your sub is into urine play, that would be completely uncalled for. If she's not into urine play, I'd call that abuse, especially if it's a limit for her. If you want to punish her, find a better way to tell her you're not pleased with her blowjobs if that really is the case.

If you do it just to do it and then lie to her, well, you're what we call a "wannabe Dom" around here. It's your job to take care of her and let her know that she can trust you completely, lying to her is a good way to kill that bond you two have.

what she said.

[JayTC]

Forgive me, for intruding on this conversation, but.....I shall...trust is something that takes a long time to build, and no time at all to break. In an M/s, D/s relationship there really is NO room to break trust. Or else, what are you left with? Nothing? Nobody to Dominate, and certainly no level of your submissive's commitment, and trust in you. So where is the fun in that? I don't frankly see any.

I never have to trick my slave. Like mostly everyone here has reflected upon, her displeasing me is probably one of the worst feelings she feels. It is not so much the punishment but her knowing that she did something to displease me.

My suggestion, just a suggestion though....go back to square one....if you are trying to "trick" a sub into "believing she gave you a bad blowjob," then you certainly don't have your priorities straight....OR perhaps you are not too good at knowing what type of blowjob you like and can't give a good description of what you want? It's a hard blow to a sub to think she is doing something to please you, and you turn it the other way around. Don't send mixed signals, tell them what you want, how you want it, and that's it! I think I have said enough. Shakes head.....