Right on, Wolfie. jiggy, I Do not believe your 'subs' come back for more; I do not believe you are a Dom, or even a dom. Yes, of course, some people are into degradation. Yes, of course it is possible that you find yourself girls - and I'm sure they're girls, not women - who think that being abused, confused and degraded is what subbing is all about. I just hope for them that they find someone else - after you've got 'bored' with them - who actually knows how to help them find happiness and fulfilment in the life.

I do wonder, now - is it that you move on pretty quickly because you get bored, or is it just that you can't keep a sub and you can't admit it to yourself?