Quote Originally Posted by Sir_Russell View Post
well said nk_lion. I really hate this discussion because there is so much left out, is the Dom a concerned one or is he just an abuser. No one knows the details of each relationship including those in it.

I am offended that anyone would think that I would abuse someone no matter what their past was.
I agree Russell, just because a sub has been abused in the past, does not mean I would abuse her.