Why do most subs come with an abused background? Don't abuse them

[Sadistic1]

Ohhhhhh, what a wonderful post. Thank you Sadistic1. Feeling all gooey inside now...

The breadth and depth of your love for, and cherishing of your slave, oozed through every word.

cariad

Thank you cariad, its very easy to speak the truth about someone you love so dearly.

sometimes good things come out of abuse....smiles...you change your direction and find someone who cares and loves you...

Thankyou again for your kind words.

big hugs..

[Iron_Lynx]

sometimes good things come out of abuse....smiles...you change your direction and find someone who cares and loves you...

I find that life usually balances out like that. Tremendous pain or hardship tends to be followed by such good things. Though, wonderful things eventually crash or taper off to a mild pleasantness. To me it just seems to be the cyclical nature of life.

I'm not by any means saying that relationships have to crash or lose all their fire, but keeping things changing in the relationship or even going through some hard times together definitely makes things more interesting, and thus passionate.

And for the record, both my Mistress and I have suffered abuse as children. I'll give no details beyond that, but I don't believe it means it's in our best interests to be excluded from this lifestyle. I think, to the contrary, we do a lot of good for each other.

[Sadistic1]

I find that life usually balances out like that. Tremendous pain or hardship tends to be followed by such good things. Though, wonderful things eventually crash or taper off to a mild pleasantness. To me it just seems to be the cyclical nature of life.

I'm not by any means saying that relationships have to crash or lose all their fire, but keeping things changing in the relationship or even going through some hard times together definitely makes things more interesting, and thus passionate.

And for the record, both my Mistress and I have suffered abuse as children. I'll give no details beyond that, but I don't believe it means it's in our best interests to be excluded from this lifestyle. I think, to the contrary, we do a lot of good for each other.

Well said and your right you both excel with each other..