BDSM before and after the Internet

[Uncle_Ed]

I better let older people than me answer this but my guess would be that it wasnt very easy to get in touch with other people with your interests and likes.

Ah. That would be me, then.

It was indeed difficult. There were numerous magazines, of course, and clubs. Both could work-but as always, one needed to be careful. I imagine that the scene from a sub's point of view must have been truly terrifying.
I'm not what you might call a small guy-so I have been in some places where perhaps others may not dare to venture. I will say that in my experience, the scene here in the UK has been very friendly and I have had some great times-but I have as daft an outlook in real life as I do in here-so get by on my sense of humour and of the rdiiculous.

I have never been taken that seriously-and I am grateful that I seem to keep people amused.

But-back to the point. I have dated a few girls in my time-and simply told them of my preferences. The general reaction was one of deep interest and willingness to try...I have been very lucky.

[Logic1]

Ah. That would be me, then.

But-back to the point. I have dated a few girls in my time-and simply told them of my preferences. The general reaction was one of deep interest and willingness to try...I have been very lucky.

yes you are one of the persons I thought about there

and yes honesty seems to be working for me too.
If you make a good impression in the first date or 2, then most girls I find are atleast willing to try some fun in the hay if you get to that point in a relationship.