So I forgot to make the bed (twice) and now we have an interesting discussion

[Rhabbi]

I wasn't a reinforcement I wasn't even aware that there was an argument between dominants. I was stating my opinion and I'm sure everyone else was as well. I was engaging in a discussion not getting between anyone.

I was trying to get involved more in the forums as a way of personally remembering and honouring Rabbit who I respected a lot in the time I knew him- now I feel like I should just stay away as everything seems to be misconstrued.

Honey, please don't let the pissing matches between others chase you away. If you go they win and end up taking over everything and that's not what Rabbit would have wanted. Honor him by staying. Please!

Totally agree with kestrel here.