As I am sure I have stated else where I practice orgasm control for mine. She is told very early in the relationship even before I decide whether I will accept her gift, that she can not climax without my direct permission. Yes that is all inclusive. She is to call me if I am not there to grant or deny permission. I know that this training allows growth in many different areas.

First she learns that I am the one in control where it really counts but only because she wants me to be. She has the right to refuse and find a new Dom.

Second, it teaches her to beg, god I love to be really begged, till it becomes second nature to her. These first two are very important to teaching her to let go of personal control and give it to me.

Third, once it has become established she will learn multiple climaxes and to climax on demand when I want it the most. I am deep inside of her and I want the thrill of her climax to take me over the edge.

Third, once she is trained she can experience a climax like no other, the one that goes from my getting her excited then stopping touching her in any way and telling her "cum for, cum for hard, show me how much you love me, cum for me NOW'. I am told that the climax is so mental that it almost hurts her body. Finally I can have her cum by just talking her into it, without any touch by me or her.

Once these have been established cuming by herself is almost impossible and to cheat lol is about the same. At that point I own her and have to screw up big time to lose her.

Other may disagree and that is fine I can only explain what I know