Quote Originally Posted by Sir_Russell View Post

Those we call switches I really don't understand but my guess is that they aren't great at either role.
I think there's very many levels to this. "doing it well"? How is it possible to fail, unless you aren't enjoying yourself? I think it hinges upon what it is you hope to achieve from the sex. I would call myself naturally dominant. I enjoy it and it needs no effort from my side. Being submissive and obedient, (like I am at work) takes effort, (but I think I'm because of my BDSM interests even better at it then all the sheep here, but never mind that).

I can still get turned on by the idea of being dominated and humiliated. I have some experience of it even. I'm not much of a slave because I don't enjoy it as much. That's simply what it's down to.

I understand switches. It's people who are either submissive or dominant who dabble in playing for the other team for fun. It might also be people who haven't found the comfortable station in life, but I'll stop speculating now before I hurt myself. I'm not going to say I understand it, but I do see many levels to this making skill impossible to measure.