Cheating ......
I will say everyones defination is diffrent......it only matters what the 2 people involved think cheating is and is one opinion is far diffrent than the others then ummmm i dont know what to say to that...

Cheating can mean many things to many people....but if someone is doing it behind your back then that tell me they are not proud of it.......sure cybering doesnt fit the physical standards of cheating but they are fullfilling that physical need without being physical....its definately cheating on a emotional level......they are getting something out of it that they are not getting form their relationship.....

Ok for those compare cybering to stories magazines and dvd's.......well for one none of thsoe things are interactive for 2 the isnt another person involved in anyway 3 when was the last time someone rented a dvd and 3 months later the whole cast of porn sluts showed up at their door sayinf het you rented our dvd awhile back you wanna fuck?
so it is far diffrent that books and movies