every dom and every sub have theor own style no 2 are alike its easy saying me dom you sub.....but now what? well thats where communication time prectice apitence coem in.....well and lots of trust.......baby step at first you cant go jumping out of the plane as soon as it leaves the runway......thats about all i cna really say.....other than both of you sould be asking eachother and answering eachothers questions and being honest best advice i ahve