Just an observation

[Tojo]

On the other hand, to say "hey, I'm a Dom but I have no real experience" leaves one open to be seen as a poser or not worth the time for the searching subs. Seems much more isolating.

That may be the perception, but IMO it's refreshing to see a Dom say he doesn't 'know it all'

At least he has some chance of learning, & I firmly believe that an inexperienced Dom willing to learn is a far better prospect than an experienced one who isn't.

Experience does not always equal expertise!

[gemmy]

That may be the perception, but IMO it's refreshing to see a Dom say he doesn't 'know it all'

At least he has some chance of learning, & I firmly believe that an inexperienced Dom willing to learn is a far better prospect than an experienced one who isn't.

Experience does not always equal expertise!

or good for that matter *winks*