a helping hand

[jeanne]

I think there's a lot of Dom's out there too who're keen to take advantage of anyone, and I know I've talked to some who immediately expect me to call them 'Master' or 'Sir' just because I'm a sub, and they're just plain horrible to talk to; they treat you like a piece of meat.

I must make a confession here...I've never, not once, had a Dom tell me immediately to call him Sir or Master or whatever. I think part of the reason is that I don't hang out in the chatroom and part of the reason is that I make no secret of my age (43) and the ones who want that right away are usually insecure ninnies who seek out "young meat" to feel powerful. It's quite pathetic, really.

Both of these kinds of people give BDSM a bad name, and it's worse when they won't listen... but there are still some genuinely nice people out there

Yes, there are.

[gemmy]

I must make a confession here...I've never, not once, had a Dom tell me immediately to call him Sir or Master or whatever. I think part of the reason is that I don't hang out in the chatroom and part of the reason is that I make no secret of my age (43) and the ones who want that right away are usually insecure ninnies who seek out "young meat" to feel powerful. It's quite pathetic, really.

i've had this request from the insecure idiots many times and i don't think it has anything to do with the chatroom - more often than not it's via site mail (not so much on here thankfully) and i'm 41 so i don't think it is age specific although i do believe the younger they are the easier a target they become.

upon telling them i will not call anyone Sir or Master except One of my choosing, you'll find them get very angry because you know, how Dare a mere, stupid, mindless sub challenge the All powerful, self-titled Master lmao - makes me laugh everytime at their complete stupidity