Not trying to pirate this thread but I think this fits here.

I consider myself to be a pretty rare Dom, hell any Dom that has real world experience that isn't an abuser is. Then how long have they had their sub/slave also shows if their real.

I can take a woman that hardly realizes she has sub tendencies and take her to new places with her as a willing traveler. I find so many talk a fair game but then that is cheap and easy. A Dom that can watch his sub/slave and learn her needs know where she is going before she does are again rare.

Most of the real Doms spend a long time finding a woman that they want for theirs, we may well try on quite a few to find the one that has the traits that we need. It should come as no surprise that online that many Doms have several subs but in real life it is very hard to several at the same time and keep everyone happy.

Doms are rare and have to spend time studing quite a few fields and their subs to be successful. They have to be able teach, train and love their sub/slaves and yet be able to walk away from them if it isn't a good fit for both. Think about the strength of character that requires.

I have spent time on this forum and feel I know most of the real Doms and the ones that only think they are real. Some of them I like some I don't since they aren't enough like me, but that doesn't mean that I don't respect them and their abilities that are different from mine.

Ladies if you have a real Dom think long and hard before you risk doing things that will cause him to look elsewhere. That doesn't mean that if you not compatible that you should just make the best of it. It means that if he fits you then serve him willingly stop expecting him to force you to serve. A little brat in a sub/slave is good but a lot is not my cup of tea.