Quote Originally Posted by silver9 View Post
It's all a bit confusing, but I'm really scared that I'm pressuring him a bit, and that's the last thing I want to do, because he's been so understanding with me and has been okay with me saying that we can't have sex, and we've been together for a year and a half now
um, what? YOU've told him you can't have sex, and you wonder why he's reluctant? I guess i'm not understanding the situation....