Quote Originally Posted by sisterhoney61 View Post
I used to stay silent in my vanilla marriage. I would think of all the questions I wanted and needed to ask, but when it actually came down to doing so, I clammed up. And I stewed and became resentful of myself for remaining silent. Maybe if I could have said what I needed to say a long time ago, things would have turned out differently for me. *shrugs*

But with Master it is different and I am able to say what I need to say to Him, to ask Him the hard questions and to answer the hard questions from Him. Maybe it's because I know that this relationship is worth fighting for and keeping and I will do anything that I need to to make sure that Master is in my life.
I used to be the exact same way as I found with vanilla relationships, we weren't always trusting enough to give our partner all so worried about their judgement in things we might want to ask and never did.

In M/s relationships, I personally feel that if you are giving your 100% trust to Him, you shouldn't ever fear asking him anything. Now that being said, I do know there are still some things that worry us to ask so in those cases, I try to pick more 'opportune' moments to bring them up or else I just 'blurt' it out if I hold it too long lol