Trust should never be a given, it should not be expected or demanded without earning it. It should always be earned and once that trust is broken, for whatever reason, it is hard to get back. I think we all know that though, don't we? This goes for all parties involved in my opinion. I could no sooner demand that anyone trust me then I could that they respect me.

Each relationship is as unique as the next but in every one that is successful communication plays an extremely large part in that success. By getting to know someone you then can decide if you trust them or not. I don't feel asking a question of them is breaking that trust at all or do I feel it is a misuse of anyone's right to privacy if they are involved with each other.