PS

i showed him some things on the net at first...some bondage mpeg samples, a good caning sample here and there. i checked his reaction...NOT what he said, but how his eyes spoke. i could see the spark.

We experimented with easy stuff...medical was our first. He was able to explore my body. I kept my eyes closed for the most part, so there was no "audience" for him, he could be unintimidated.

I suggested the lifestyle a year ago. It's one helluva struggle, and we backslide at times and have a real arguement, but I take my punishment later for my discrepancies. We get up and try again.

Now, it seems that we are having fewer fights and more respect and discipline.