Perhaps it is more important that you explain more in depth what you want rather than just saying I like to be dominated. That's fairly vague. If I want to talk about something with anyone that I think it's gonna be tough to explain or that I'm not super comfortable talking about, before the conversation I right down points I wanna bring up. After going over them a couple times to myself I feel like I am better able to communicate my needs. Be prepared to outline what it is you mean, what you want, and give him resources in which he can learn more. Tell him that there is no pressure you would just love it if he learned more and could gage how he feels about it. Open and honest lines of communication is always the way to go when it comes to anything you may want in a relationship.

Also, perhaps he is afraid if he takes on that role in your life it will be even harder to resist vaginal intercourse. The vaginal intercourse issue even if it seems to be of little importance probably has more significance than you realize. Is your family also against birth control? Are you? If you have no moral issues yourself against using it perhaps that is an option you can look into. After all you don't have to tell them you are using it. And medical records are private. If you use a form of ************ birth control along with the use of condoms you should have no worry of becoming impregnated.


All the Best
Casie