Please, tell us all how old you are. You can lie, but why? From what I've seen in this site, no one is judgemental, and I am quite certain that a lot of us want to give you the BEST advice for your situation. I, also, have a thread seeking advice form these folks. I have a lot of advice from my own experiences as a man/Dom, but I am not yet comfortable sharing with you. A little more about yourself please? What makes you feel that you want to be dominated, why are you not interested in dominating? Step out, explain please.