Kinky Sex Turns Deadly

[gagged_Louise]

Yup I know similar cases where it's gone fatally wrong - there was one in Stockholm a few years back where a man had been doing some s/m play together with a girl he'd seen a few times before. He was submissive and allowed himself to be tied to a chair, hands cuffed behind and then she would Domme him. Probably the idea was humiliation through words and some slight spanking but they were both quite a bit drunk and it spiralled out of control; she fetched two big knives and stabbed him in the chest, and then tried to cover her tracks by arranging a fire in the apartment. She ended up with a lifetime jail sentence for murder.

Also, it's really important to see that what's "possible" in a story is often way beyond what works in reality. In an abduction story a sub can hang by her wrists for days, her mouth stuffed with a gag, and take masses of flogging. Umm, wouldn't work too good in real life...

[Tufty]

.....but they were both quite a bit drunk and it spiralled out of control......

Also, it's really important to see that what's "possible" in a story is often way beyond what works in reality. In an abduction story a sub can hang by her wrists for days, her mouth stuffed with a gag, and take masses of flogging. Umm, wouldn't work too good in real life...

Both a bit drunk??? Hardly 'safe and sane' is it?? The other sad thing is that there are some people who can't differentiate between fantasy and reality. As Louise says, you can do things in a story that could have fatal consequences in r/l

[Hime]

Yup I know similar cases where it's gone fatally wrong - there was one in Stockholm a few years back where a man had been doing some s/m play together ioth a girl he'd seen a few times before. He was submissive and allowed himself to be tied to a chair, hands cuffed behind and then she would Domme him. Probably the idea was humiliation through words and some slight spanking but they were both quite a bit drunk and it spiralled out of control; she fetched two big knives and stabbed him in the chest, and then tried to cover her tracks by arranging a fire in the apartment. She ended up with a lifetime jail sentence for murder.

Also, it's really important to see that what's "possible" in a story is often way beyond what works in reality. In an abduction story a sub can hang by her wrists for days, her mouth stuffed with a gag, and take masses of flogging. Umm, wouldn't work too good in real life...

I find it really hard to believe that this happened by accident, honestly. I mean, stabbed him in the chest?

[gagged_Louise]

I find it really hard to believe that this happened by accident, honestly. I mean, stabbed him in the chest?

Yes, I don't recall if that girl was an escort or just someone he vaguely knew - he had been exploring the kinky world a bit. A neighbour heard him scream "No -(the woman's name) --no, don't do that!" and then some loud howls, and it turned out she had also taken his wallet after he died.
At the trial she said a Mr X had entered the place while she was making coffee, he'd have stabbed him and set fire to the place and then left again - obviously the court didn't believe that story (her fingerprints were on the bloodied knife, but no one else's) Now, as she took the wallet it could be seen as robbery & murder, but it's hard to say if it might have happend had she not been drunk too.

[Alex Bragi]

I find it really hard to believe that this happened by accident, honestly. I mean, stabbed him in the chest?

Yes, my thoughts exactly.

The case sisterhoney has cited reads to me like pure ignorance or possibly something much worse. I mean what sane person would bind another person up like that then leave them?

[icey]

I find it really hard to believe that this happened by accident, honestly. I mean, stabbed him in the chest?

i had exactly the same thought, i dont believe for 1 minute anyone doing this simply for sexual fun would leave someone alone for 20 hrs.

anyone into bondage for a bit of kink in the bedroom wouldnt go to that extreme they're in it simply for the fun at that time and 9 times out of 10 they wouldnt even know how to go that far, and anyone who's more advanced knows not even to go there!

someone who's already experienced or has researched thoroughly knows exactly what they're doing and the most likely outcome.

im with ashtonDS and believe that people come forward and that education of some description for the general public is needed, not practical education ie shibari lessons or use a gag correctly, but in a way that shows we are responsible are aware of the risks, dont take stupid risks take all precautions seriously etc and that idiots like that are not even a part of the BDSM community/lifestyle and that we totally oppose and condone such practises and people and do our best to educate and help each other.

although thats sometimes a misnomer in itsself, it tends to get twisted by joe public and we're criticised for 'encouraging' wickedness,sin dragging others into our depravity and the like lol

im not putting across what im trying to say too well lol