THIS IS NOT an example of BDSM! This is a vanilla husband and wife. We do not know the whole story here. Did the hubby fool around on her? Why would she be provoked to do such a thing? Not that any explanation would matter, or justify such acts. But, those of us who take the lifestyle seriously would never, NEVER, consider such an act. This was a woman who was dis-honored in such a way that she felt no other recourse would be sufficient. She read the Oprah book of the month "The Story of O" (maybe) and staged the whole damn thing. She's guilty--it was no accident. PERIOD. He must have been guilty of something, though. She left him in a state of humiliation--he must have humilated her at some point--probably pretty badly. I don't mean to justify what she has done here. The negative media attention to the BDSM community will be long-lasting--as it always is.

"Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned"...

...in my humble opinion.