thanks fetishdj i feel a little better reading that. But i need to clarify that my parents aren't catholic just my brother, my parents are Christians, don't ask me what kind, lol. Also when i say parents i mean my mom and step father. My mom remarried when i was 12, and they started dating when i was 10 i believe so he isn't my real father but i am suppose to respect him like he is... right. But i thought to clear that up. Thanks for the advice i will keep that in mind.