Quote Originally Posted by mysc View Post
Huh? I don't want to be rude but this statement is a bit too much for me. A Dom(me) is only human too with his/her insecurities. Parents in law are a big thing, and whether your a Dom or not, it's never easy to meet them, especially when they are known to be difficult about a relationship. I would rather see my Dom's insecurities than him owning/claiming every situation. Better yet the ones I did go out with (including my ex husband) who were "in control" were selfcentric bastards and didn't give a sh*t about the world. No I would rather have a Dom that has his insecurities, that makes him human to me. Domming the world and Domming me is a total different thing.
I am just plain dying to defend myself here, but my defense will most certainly distract the focus from the original post. Therefore, please refer to the new thread "Dominance in Life vs. Dominance in Relationships" for my response.

However, HisandHisOnly, I agree woth Mastersgem and Stripey on all levels of their advice to you. Give it time, and you and your boyfriend might do well together, if you make the right decisions. Just take your time. I still call myself "fairly new" to the scene, but I have been in to it for a couple of years--not a couple of months. 'Nuff said!