I like vanilla girls too... actually, I tend to seperate my sexual needs and my kinky needs a lot because those who want to have sex with me rarely seem to want to tie me up while they do it and vice versa. I am happy with my vanilla wife and indulge in the BDSM that she is not much interested in (she indulges occasionally and is not a total virgin but has no interest in the lifestyle). She is happy for this so long as no actual intercourse takes place with the BDSM.

Training virgins can take time as mentioned but is worth it in the end...