Just be open and up-front about your interests to girls you fancy. It'll sort itself out. the fun ones will stay, and the boring run away screaming. All time spent with the wrong chicks is wasted time. If she runs she's doing you a favour.

Over time and with practice you'll be able to pick out the submissive chicks in a crowd as if they had it written over their foreheads. It just takes a lot of s o c i a l i s i n g, partying and sleeping around.

I promise.

edit: can somebody fix this word filter. It's been broken for ever.