I truly don't understand everyone's need to put it in peoples faces? I don't want to know my friends / family's sexual desires in detail no more than I'm sure they want to know mine and certainly the lady at the check out Doesn't want to know lol

I agree. I keep my sex life/preferences private. But I shouldn't have to hide it from my partner.

I guess I just had some thoughts rattling around in my head and had to get them out.

Thnaks for the reply.