Yeah it sucks, eh Cicily? My wife has a sort of passing interest, but more in a fetish sense. We live more of a LDD relationship I guess (Loving Domestic Discipline)

It's a minefield of right & wrong really- as you say some people find solace in others, whether in an online relationship or meetings with others.

People say you can change your partner from being straight to enjoying a D/s relationship- I personally think it's rare.

Well at least you have this place to come to- & lots of nice people to talk to!