Quote Originally Posted by Cicily View Post
Icey: Thank you for the post. I enjoyed your "long-winded ramblings." Truthfully I don't care to have a D/s or "traditional" relationship with him anymore. There is too much history there (17 yrs) to even want to try. I just need to quit dicking around and make some decisions instead of letting guilt keep me in the marriage.
Actually that's a good point Cicily- it's hard to imagine after X amount of years marriage, going from a traditional role to a full-blown D/s thing. I sure wouldn't want it with my wife.

We have a pretty good arrangement- she looks after me like I'm a king, & asks permission to do stuff. I 'tell her off' for doing things I don't like- & support her when things get tough.

There's far too much emphasis on what is or isn't a D/s relationship- we all have to find our own path to follow in life.

Be sure & let us know how it goes- it's good to see people take charge of their lives & get what they want.