Quote Originally Posted by TomOfSweden View Post
he he. If you've been with the same guy for 17 years and the sex still ain't working... well... then how could you possible feel guilty for leaving? He's not being manipulative by any chance? Or are you one of those who worry about everything?

There is more to marriage than non-existent orgasms. (Isn't that why God created fingers, vibrators, and hand-held showerheads? )

I feel guilty because he is my friend and I have been with him for half of my life. He is a good guy, just not good for me.

He is not manipulative, just very dependent on me for his stability and happiness. (No one can make you happy but yourself. I know this, he doesn't.) I have never been a worrier. I am laid back, loyal, outgoing, determined, and nuturing. I always take care of everyone around me. I guess that is another reason for the guilt. I don't want to take care of him anymore.