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Quote Originally Posted by TomOfSweden View Post
...." It just takes a lot of s o c i a l i s i n g, partying and sleeping around".......

Now why do you need to sleep around a lot to figure it out? Nothing that some straight communication won't figure out. Don't need to go screwing every girl around to find whether she likes kink.
Awww whats the fun in talking if they're down with sleeping around to find out? Yeah you could ask what's wrapped up in your christmas present, but its MUCH more fun to open it, find out its a wool sweater, and move on to the next one.