Experienced or Not??

[deigja]

Hi gem, as you prefer an experienced som, i do prefer the inexperienced for now. I definitely do not wish to teach one inexperienced after the other how best to dom.. I cannot even teach mine, he has to find out by himself. All I can do with my own limited experience is to tell him what I do and do not like and let him explore. As you can see in the advice appreciated-threat, this is not ithout complications. I do have no whish to top from the bottom and try to avoid it, and if he would just do everything just as I tell him it would feel like domming myself... nevertheless my inexperienced one has an inner dom, he knows how to take me and still needs communication even more than more experienced doms...
Beeing pretty new and sometimes a bit afraid of my own desires he is just what I need to make me feel comfortable. I talked to a lot of more experienced doms and often felt a little overwhelmed.. so even the new doms can find a partner... and I fully accept mine as beeing the boss.

greetings deigja

[gemmy]

.....I talked to a lot of more experienced doms and often felt a little overwhelmed.. so even the new doms can find a partner... and I fully accept mine as beeing the boss....

Awesome perspective - thank you