Experienced or Not??

[denuseri]

humm are yu experienced,,??(jimmy hendrix)) its my own experience that a dom with lil experience is ok if he is 1-Strong willed, 2- smart enough to find out the nessesary info before doing sumthing to me, etc, 3-knows me and my responses way before play time & 4-allows me to know him just as well, ive been around the block a few times i started knowing absolutly nothing and realize you have to learn somewhere, back when i was younger after my first dom and his wife, i went out determined to find and or make a dom if nessesary,, in desperation we found an older more experienced dom to teach him and in the prossess i ended up with Him instead of my newbie, but that was all real life training, a far different cry from on line, my experience via hind sight was i need a dom thats in charge and knows more than i do, and that worked for a long time for me. now, ive become kinda a teacher online at times to those that need the help, and even enjoyed online experiences with not so experienced doms ,but alas everyone is different, and the bdsm side of a relationship should never comepletely dominate the two peoples lives, even in a so called 24/7, the base of any relationship should be love

[Tojo]

I think there's a big difference between a sub showing a new Dom the ropes, & him learning by himself.

To me, it's crucial to know what makes my girl tick, what works & what doesn't- but that's an ongoing thing which will never end.

Learning about being a Dom is also something I see as ongoing- it's something inside of me that is far far more than getting a breast harness just right, or clipping the leash on at just the right moment.

Besides, it's different every time- a sub is an individual & all are deliciously different.

[Borgs_slave]

Learning about being a Dom is also something I see as ongoing- it's something inside of me that is far far more than getting a breast harness just right, or clipping the leash on at just the right moment.

Besides, it's different every time- a sub is an individual & all are deliciously different.

Exactly!!

[gemmy]

"..... a sub is an individual & all are deliciously different....."

Absolutely

[gemmy]

humm are yu experienced,,??(jimmy hendrix)) its my own experience that a dom with lil experience is ok if he is 1-Strong willed, 2- smart enough to find out the nessesary info before doing sumthing to me, etc, 3-knows me and my responses way before play time & 4-allows me to know him just as well...."

Damn that is so spot on lol - Thank you