I think there's a big difference between a sub showing a new Dom the ropes, & him learning by himself.

To me, it's crucial to know what makes my girl tick, what works & what doesn't- but that's an ongoing thing which will never end.

Learning about being a Dom is also something I see as ongoing- it's something inside of me that is far far more than getting a breast harness just right, or clipping the leash on at just the right moment.

Besides, it's different every time- a sub is an individual & all are deliciously different.